What if you die NOW?

Okay, yes I am the culprit; I deserve a big kick on my ass right now.

I am super sorry for doing this, I promise to post at least two posts a month from now on…pinky, greeny, bluey like every promise.

Blame it on me, my laziness, my 5am alarm and my weird no sleep and too much sleep schedule.

Now, Today’s post 

“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I have ever encountered to help me. Make the big choices in life. Because almost everything- all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure- these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of THINIKNG you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason to follow your heart.”-STEVE JOBS.   

Need I say more?!!                                 

From the start of your life all you are tensed about is the end of it.

Well as this wise man just stated that, you need that tension in your life to live it.

But why take death as a tension and why not take it as a challenge or an opportunity to achieve whatever you can till you are here, Present.

Living in the moment, or living RIGHT NOW isn’t like you totally forget where you are and what your goals are...

You obviously are living in the present but with a sorted future.

I know it’s bloody difficult to plan ishh out, I can never plan and work according to that, and yes I do blame it on myself and then regret for not following it.

But, being sorted and being a well planned perfectionist are two different things.

While you are still alive

LIVE…

While you are still alive  

FEEL...

While you are still alive  

LOVE…

While you are still alive  

Live for what you want

Make life your own style,

Let them follow, let THEM complain,

Be STUBBORN.

  "Because people, death is obvious but    life… its spontaneous”

P.S.- I changed my playlist from Shaan and Shreya ghoshal to NUCLEYA and MOGWAI, which changed my lingo too. And, half of this was written like 2 months ago and half like right now.

                                                                   

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PEOPLE.

After two weeks of ill-health, bed-rests and a lot of sleep I am back.

Apologies people!

Now,

Today’s post,

What do people mean to you?

And, by people I mean the society you live inn, your colleagues, acquaintances, friends of friends..everyone you know and have either a smile on your face or a frown..or both (in some cases) when you see them.

Let’s face it how much ever I’ll say or someone else will say this society will still matter to you, it will still be the first critic you’ll listen to rather than your own mind or heart or your instinct.

The first argument which will come up will be that “You are also a part of the same society you talking about.”

The answer is Yes! I am. But I am not a part of your court which is full of irrational, narrow-minded, closed-minded and judgmental views on people walking, eating, talking, clothing, laughing, smiling, texting or even for sake of LIVING a LIFE breathing with their own body, for their own body.

It’s not just the senior citizens who be the Hon’ble chief justice of the ‘court of society’ but its like everyone from teens to parents to even our seniors and how can I forget the relatives.

Everyone on earth is ready to judge you but not to be with you.

Forget about the support, they don’t even will care about you, all they care about is how they can de-motivate you.

All you can do with these THEM’S is just listen carefully to them there perspective, their thought process, say a thank 

you with a smile and IGNORE the whole thing.

Staying unmarried for life.

Leaving education and travelling.

Talking more to guys being a girl.

Hugging your guy friend in public.

Laughing too loud, being a lady.

Eating by opening your mouth wide open.

Taking up the no-makeup look.

Scoring less than 85%-100% in your exams.

Dancing your heart out.

Getting drunk being a GIRL.

Loosing your virginity before marriage.

Not having a fb profile.

Having too active fb timeline.

Being too skinny.

Being too fat.

Going on a spiritual path.

Being an atheist.

Loving someone from a different community.

From this to that, do anything you are going to be judged and criticized.

I know you cant leave this world or get detached from the society and go totally against them and start a revolution.

But, you can take up small small revolutions and try explaining to people your point. I know, they’ll not understand because they never do! But you gotta try.

You just cant fight with everyone.

World is a huge land to fight with, but a small one to be in love with.

Then, what to do if they don’t understand?

Firstly, why do you wanna make them understand?

Just do it naa!

If you feel right.

No one else matters except from you and your trust in that thought.

Just make sure that the people who have trust in you and the ones you trust are in your favor, when the world isn’t there should be someone with you.

Standing against the world is not an easy job. But if you out do it, no human in this world  will be as happy as you are.

“Because chasing happiness is life.”

P.S.- Too long. Concept is kinda deep. Hope you got me.

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CREATE.

                                              

I do know who I am.

Do I know who I am?

Which one of these are you?

Confident enough to state that you are well aware about yourself, your emotions, your fears, your future, your present, your people…YOU.

I am not.

I am the question mark who is just finding the answers all the time and asking questions all the time, waiting for the unanswered to be answered, unquestioned to be questioned.

I am a person who feels awkward when someone calls HER a girl.

I am a person who is a tom-boy, a proud boy in a girl’s body, because that’s how I love to live, living the best of both the sexes.

Half a girl, Half a buoy.

Partially religious.

Partially a racist. (yes, I am. Sadly,trying to change this part of me)

Partially healthy.

Partially sexy.

Partially a friend.
Partially an enemy.

Partially a painter.

Partially an artist.

Partially a dancer.

Partially a wanderer.

But, in all I am wholly an EXPLORER.

An explorer of SELF.

Just finding myself,

My peace.

My love

My people

My happy location.

That’s all I keep exploring about in me.

And I want you people to start exploring yourself by just being yourself and doping yourself up with joy, love, happiness, craziness, stupidity, weridness, epicness.

Know where your lala land is.

Don’t hurry, take your time, you have all your life to explore yourself. Every day is a new explosive venture. Just see the explosion and jump. (a bad one *yukhhhh*)

Just make one thing sure that what so ever you are trying to find in yourself isn’t something which you found in someone else.

Find yourself in you, not in others.

Don’t be a copy, a plastic, an imitator.

Be your CREATOR.

Create yourself.

Treat yourself as an art, a sculpture who only you can build.

One more thing, don’t force yourself, everything has a time to happen.

“Be an under-construction soul.”

P.S. :- I don’t know where I took it but it just kept on going.

#sorrynotsorry.

                                                 

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LOVE to LIVE.

APOLOGIES people!!!

New timings, New people, New routine, New schedule. Trying to adjust and cope up with it.Sorry for no posts since long. I wanted you guys to miss me. :) and I know you did! *winky*

 Now, today's post

                          

 Love like you breathe.

Living without loving is like eating without chewing , which will eventually make you choke.

Love makes the world breathe.

The way you breathe inn and out of your system, every micro-second the same way you can love every micro-second of your life.

By just simply being a lover of yourself.

Your soul.

Your life.

Your body.

Your  mind.

Your thoughts.

Your people.

Love everything you have because you never know till when it is going to be with you.

Its not important to have a girl by your side to make yourself feel in love.

Its not important to have a boyfriend to be a lover.

A lover is someone who is in love be it anything or everything.

No one on this planet has ever been able to define love, although they all have been able to imperfectly express their love.

Yes, IMPERFECTLY! Because expressing love is something which cannot be perfect at all. The more you give the more you want. There is no perfect ratio of giving and getting it.

Which is why it is so complex to love.

You fear love  because you feel you are not going to get back enough of it.

But, why you want it back?

Why not do something without expecting something out of it?

Life in not a mathematical equation in which you will get LHS=RHS.

And, not every person is the same. Don’t judge people based on a person.

Give love to everyone you know, everything you have, every second you spend.

Don’t expect it to come back at that very moment.

Wait for the right time.

It will happen because it is meant to.

Injustice will not be granted when it comes to love.

This world is a huge magnet it attracts whatever you give to it and also spreads the waves of the same.

I know its difficult to practice what I am saying but start from the small, like the person you pushed today in the train say her/him a sorry… ego problems!, I can understand same is the case here.

The alternative is, to just say a sorry in your head when you FEEL it, the waves will reach!

Love is everything.

Live for Love.

Live with Love.

Live to Love.

Be a lover.

Start your day by loving the previous day you spent. And believing that today is also going to be a love-filled day.

Just a small believe can make a lot of change.

Loving your life will make it more happy and less sad.

As, love can never be sad and will never let you be.

You can google love quotes and keep looking for it everywhere, in every person..but people you will only find it in YOURSELF.

Right there on the left side corner…the one beating organ you have its desperate to spread all the love it has stored inside.

When you don’t clear the memory of your smart phone and keep storing more and more which makes it hang and dysfunctional.

The same way is your heart if you keep storing and storing  all the love it has then there will be dysfunctions in it.

Spread all the love you have.

Don’t save it.

              “ALWAYS BE A LOVER.”

P.S.:- making love and spreading love is not the same thing. Although both are lovely. *winky*

  

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BE THE UNKNOWN!

Everything like every effing thing in this world happens for a reason, a motto, an aim..it's not important that you should know the reason always sometimes it may take time for you to realize the reason, to acknowledge the reason and accept it.

The most important thing here is to have the believe and faith in your guts, your intuitions, your thought process, your feelings and most importantly your MIND.

Okay, just think, what if,

You are told about your surprise bash just a day before it?

The weather people give the right forecast during monsoons ,where you will not even be able to enjoy the rains?  

The rollercoaster you sitting onn gives the shocking, life-threatening turn just at the start?

Your maa will tell you at the time of the breakfast only that you’ll have to have mushrooms and corn for dinner (I hate them both.)?

You are shown the question paper of your exam the day before it? (actually, that would be great but I can still guarantee I will not get above 85%. Not a scotch *intentions included* you know *winky*.)

You are given the book of your whole life on the day you are born?   

You are told about the climax of the mystery book you reading, the murder story you watching?

The last episode of your favorite TV series is aired on the first day itself of the telecast?

You meet the love of your life not magically but in a planned way?

What KICK will it be???

No fun

No adventure

No kick

No risks

No thrill

No excitement

NOTHING!

Hence,

Something bad happens just because something better is waiting for its turn to HAPPEN with you.

Believe in your bad times,because sun sets, to rise again.

There is a reason you are given

Some punishments

Some rewards

Some shocks

Some tears

Some heartbreaks

Some happiness

Some joy

Some love

Some sadness

Some smiles

Some laughs

Some people.

In your lives,knowing the reason for the existence of them at that particular moment will spoil the surprise.

In these type of situations just LIVE through it.

Go with the FLOW.

And any-which-ways, you have BFF’s to take out all the frustrations onn! (If not then, I am here! All the time anytime*woopywooop*.)

You are given these types of scenes to play because the director knows you fit here perfectly..as you are the only hero who can give proper justice to the role of yourself.

You are a sculpture being formed bit by bit, agreed there are a lot of mistakes happening in between but the day you’ll accept the ongoing process…

You’ll start being a HAPPLE. 

“Something’s are better UNKNOWN.”

P.S.:- logic? No logic? My logics!

           

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HAPPLE

Firstly,

Thanks a ton for the positive and a love filled response to my first post. Now I can proudly say myself as a #blogger. 

(use of hashtag on the blog post. Oh! my so weird!Yes it is that’s 

how I am *wink*.)

Now,  Today’s Post

Wondering, what happle mean?

Well, it’s a combination of two oxford dictionary approved words which forms a non-approved word.            
                 ‘HAPPLE= HAPPY + PEOPLE’

Why this word?

Because obviously there should be a unique hashtag to be introduced *winky*.

But seriously,Happle is a word which came to me while I was in my thought zone during the night. And was wondering why not use it. Bazingaaaa!
 

Being a happle isn’t something difficult to achieve.

Just a few simple steps as mentioned above:-

Do what makes you feel happy, relieved and gives a peaceful sleep with a smile on your face, so that even when you wake up its there waiting for you feel it again.!!

Let your happy location be,

·      crazy
·      over-enthusiastic
·      weird
·      stupid
·      beautiful
·      amazing
·      against the ‘norms’
·      a desperate attempt
·      unacceptable
·      too near
·      too far

WHAT-SO-EVER! Just go onn and do it before you turn 60 and regret that you didn’t gave your happiness a chance.

Your location happy can be anything,

§  From wearing that too much feathery earring, to picking up that guy t-shirt from the male section.

§  From that girly pink nail paint to a pure matt black.

§  From bunking that important lecture to attending your juniors classes because obviously they are hot!!

§  From stalking your crush to breaking up with your despo, over-possessive girlfriend/boyfriend .

§  From enjoying the rains near the sea to hating the rains for all the mess it creates.

§  From playing football in an all guy gang to not knowing about the football at all being a guy.

§  From listening to yo yo honey singh to gulzar to taylor swift to Eminem or even R.D. burman.

§  From texting your ex-bf to calling your old long-lost friend.

Gosh!! Too much said.

All I wanna express here is that do what makes you happy without worrying or even over-thinkng about the consequences.

What could be the worst thing that could happen?

You’ll be avoided, ignored, judged, criticized, may be even a punch/ slap…but ultimately you’ll be happy that at least you tried…

And what if the opposite happens because most of the times what we think never happens, isn’t it??

So, why not just do it and not just think it!?

Go onn and do what makes you a proud happle.Live for your happiness.

You will be happy everyone surrounding you will be happier.

Take a chance.Stop thinking.

Start doing it you have your 60’s to think about. But your 20’s are here for you to do it!          

''Take the step NOW for that eternal smile.''

 
P.S.- I may have got diverted a bit from the topic where I started to where I ended. *sorry not sorry*

          

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