Friday 7 August 2015

PEOPLE.

After two weeks of ill-health, bed-rests and a lot of sleep I am back.
Apologies people!

Now,

Today’s post,

What do people mean to you?

And, by people I mean the society you live inn, your colleagues, acquaintances, friends of friends..everyone you know and have either a smile on your face or a frown..or both (in some cases) when you see them.

Let’s face it how much ever I’ll say or someone else will say this society will still matter to you, it will still be the first critic you’ll listen to rather than your own mind or heart or your instinct.

The first argument which will come up will be that “You are also a part of the same society you talking about.”

The answer is Yes! I am. But I am not a part of your court which is full of irrational, narrow-minded, closed-minded and judgmental views on people walking, eating, talking, clothing, laughing, smiling, texting or even for sake of LIVING a LIFE breathing with their own body, for their own body.

It’s not just the senior citizens who be the Hon’ble chief justice of the ‘court of society’ but its like everyone from teens to parents to even our seniors and how can I forget the relatives.

Everyone on earth is ready to judge you but not to be with you.

Forget about the support, they don’t even will care about you, all they care about is how they can de-motivate you.

All you can do with these THEM’S is just listen carefully to them there perspective, their thought process, say a thank 
you with a smile and IGNORE the whole thing.

Staying unmarried for life.

Leaving education and travelling.

Talking more to guys being a girl.

Hugging your guy friend in public.

Laughing too loud, being a lady.

Eating by opening your mouth wide open.

Taking up the no-makeup look.

Scoring less than 85%-100% in your exams.

Dancing your heart out.

Getting drunk being a GIRL.

Loosing your virginity before marriage.

Not having a fb profile.

Having too active fb timeline.

Being too skinny.

Being too fat.

Going on a spiritual path.

Being an atheist.

Loving someone from a different community.

From this to that, do anything you are going to be judged and criticized.

I know you cant leave this world or get detached from the society and go totally against them and start a revolution.

But, you can take up small small revolutions and try explaining to people your point. I know, they’ll not understand because they never do! But you gotta try.

You just cant fight with everyone.

World is a huge land to fight with, but a small one to be in love with.

Then, what to do if they don’t understand?

Firstly, why do you wanna make them understand?

Just do it naa!

If you feel right.

No one else matters except from you and your trust in that thought.

Just make sure that the people who have trust in you and the ones you trust are in your favor, when the world isn’t there should be someone with you.

Standing against the world is not an easy job. But if you out do it, no human in this world  will be as happy as you are.

“Because chasing happiness is life.”

P.S.- Too long. Concept is kinda deep. Hope you got me.
                                                                                                 LOVE.LOVE.LOVE.

1 comment:

  1. nishtha.. your thoughts are just wonderful.. hope to read much more from you..

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