After two weeks
of ill-health, bed-rests and a lot of sleep I am back.
Apologies
people!
Now,
Today’s
post,
What do
people mean to you?
And, by
people I mean the society you live inn, your colleagues, acquaintances, friends
of friends..everyone you know and have either a smile on your face or a
frown..or both (in some cases) when you see them.
Let’s face
it how much ever I’ll say or someone else will say this society will still
matter to you, it will still be the first critic you’ll listen to rather than
your own mind or heart or your instinct.
The first
argument which will come up will be that “You are also a part of the same
society you talking about.”
The answer
is Yes! I am. But I am not a part of your court which is full of irrational,
narrow-minded, closed-minded and judgmental views on people walking, eating,
talking, clothing, laughing, smiling, texting or even for sake of LIVING a LIFE
breathing with their own body, for their own body.
It’s not
just the senior citizens who be the Hon’ble chief justice of the ‘court of
society’ but its like everyone from teens to parents to even our seniors and
how can I forget the relatives.
Everyone on
earth is ready to judge you but not to be with you.
Forget about
the support, they don’t even will care about you, all they care about is how
they can de-motivate you.
All you can
do with these THEM’S is just listen carefully to them there perspective, their
thought process, say a thank
you with a smile and IGNORE the whole thing.
Staying
unmarried for life.
Leaving education
and travelling.
Talking more
to guys being a girl.
Hugging your
guy friend in public.
Laughing too
loud, being a lady.
Eating by
opening your mouth wide open.
Taking up
the no-makeup look.
Scoring less
than 85%-100% in your exams.
Dancing your
heart out.
Getting drunk
being a GIRL.
Loosing your
virginity before marriage.
Not having a
fb profile.
Having too
active fb timeline.
Being too
skinny.
Being too
fat.
Going on a spiritual
path.
Being an
atheist.
Loving someone
from a different community.
From this to
that, do anything you are going to be judged and criticized.
I know you
cant leave this world or get detached from the society and go totally against
them and start a revolution.
But, you can
take up small small revolutions and try explaining to people your point. I know,
they’ll not understand because they never do! But you gotta try.
You just
cant fight with everyone.
World is a
huge land to fight with, but a small one to be in love with.
Then, what
to do if they don’t understand?
Firstly, why
do you wanna make them understand?
Just do it
naa!
If you feel
right.
No one else
matters except from you and your trust in that thought.
Just make
sure that the people who have trust in you and the ones you trust are in your favor,
when the world isn’t there should be someone with you.
Standing against
the world is not an easy job. But if you out do it, no human in this world will be as happy as you are.
“Because chasing
happiness is life.”
P.S.- Too
long. Concept is kinda deep. Hope you got me.
LOVE.LOVE.LOVE.
nishtha.. your thoughts are just wonderful.. hope to read much more from you..
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